Depression Treatment - The Person You Love

In my last article “Free and Safe Depression Treatment for Teens and Adults,” I told you that the people who appear in your dreams are parts of your own personality and you shall interpret them according to the meaning they have for you. If you characterize them as being helpful, they signify your own helpfulness. If you think they are selfish, they signify your own selfishness. So, in your dream, the unconscious shows you your own behaviour reflected on other people, so that you can observe it better and accept the conclusions that you come to. It’s easier and better to observe other people’s mistakes than our own….

But seeing other people in your dreams can have another meaning, a very objective one, because your dreams are connected with reality and they try to help you overcome your problems. If you are in love with someone and this person brings you many problems, the unconscious gives you information about them in your dreams. In this case, you must interpret their appearance objectively and not with the symbolic meaning of parts of your own personality, even though they also bear this meaning, but the important point here is to understand that the dreams give you serious information about the reality you ignore in order to protect you from craziness.

A dearest friend who worked with me for a year used to see repeated dreams about the young man she loved, because he treated her very badly. Several dreams every day about the same person were giving her information about his character and about her own character. She was suffering very much in this relationship, but she could not see the reality as it was because she belonged to a psychological type based on feelings, and she was not able to think objectively about reality when it was in opposition to her feelings.

Another friend had a series of dreams about his wife, who abandoned him and their son, who was only 7 years old at the time. Everyday, he would see some dream or many dreams about his wife, how he met her, why they got married, everything related to her and her behaviour, as well as everything related to his own behaviour since he met her.

The unconscious is really a doctor that cures each one of us with the real knowledge about reality and about our own mistakes. Through dream interpretation, we can clearly see that we are the first ones we shall blame for our suffering because we make many mistakes by behaving according our psychological type. We don’t care about other points and other conceptions of reality. We don’t want to learn how other people interpret the same reality, and we never develop all the capacities we have with this negative attitude, because we have to accept to be different in order to learn a completely different conception of the same reality we are used to judge in our own way.

So, if you have a serious problem with someone, or if you are in love with someone and you don’t know how you shall behave, the wise and saintly unconscious will orient you through your own dreams. You only need to learn the symbolic language in order to interpret its messages. Remember though, that other people in your dreams are parts of your own personality, even though the unconscious gives you such clear information about the person you care the most. Bear in mind also that your dreams try to show you what is going to happen in the future a long time before any problem starts to appear in your life. You have to care about dream interpretation though, in order to avoid the mistakes you would make without this help.
The dream is always preparing the dreamer to deal with the problems of his daily life or the problems provoked by the invasion of craziness in his human conscience. So, the prevision is part of the dream’s structure. It has to show to the dreamer what is going to happen in the future if he won’t do anything to change his behaviour and will only repeat the mistakes of his psychological type. Each psychological type follows specific behavioural rules, according to the psychological function that is more developed in their psychic sphere.

The meaning of each premonition is always to avoid the bad result. Many people believe that we cannot change our destiny, even if we can predict it. This belief is very ancient and was part of the Greek mythology. However, in the Old Testament we have many examples of salvations that could be done thanks to dream messages that some talented creatures could interpret.
You’ll see in practice how you can change your life if you change your behaviour, thanks to the orientation given to you by the dreams’ messages. This way you’ll be able to avoid your suffering for repeating the same mistakes that everyone that belongs to your psychological type repeats for years and years, without understanding that they are only falling in the same old rut because they ddon’t care about learning who they really are.

During my studies, I came across Carl Jung’s method of deciphering dreams, which helped me and urged me to continue his research into the unknown regions of our psychical sphere. I set my poetry aside and began to compile my findings. I sought to prove that Jung had discovered the proper method of interpretation of dreams. This exercise actually taught me many things, and I continued to pursue Jung’s research into the analysis of dreams.
By Christina Sponias